Tuesday, 2 July 2013

Part 2 Rubys story - finding her dream job


Hey! So many of you really seemed to enjoy the first part of the short story I wrote about Ruby finding her dream job http://lusherlife.co.uk/2013/03/27/923/ and sadly for me, the second part disappeared into cyberspace.  However, we can't leave Ruby sitting there can we! (statement not question).  I'm hoping that you will all take away a little bit of FREE coaching from this story.  It's a different, yet interesting way to 'get the point' without asking you to read reams and reams of 'do this/don't do that'.   Let's face it,  we mostly ignore the don'ts anyway..... {Cheeky giggle} So go ahead and see how you can use this coaching in your life.  If you want more help from me, just please ask....my door is open.
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Ruby agreed with Ted that in fact the commuter, 9-5er was not her ideal of living,  although it was something she could more easily grasp the hang of.  Why?  Because it fitted with the ideal that she had been programmed to believe.  This must be the right way?
Shifting her pert bottom slightly more to the middle of the chaise-longue she continued to listen.
"Now think for a minute Ruby,  think back to when you were a child.  What would you do all day long?  But happily?" Ted asked in a firm yet soft manner.  Ruby felt comfortable with this question.  After a minute of eye rolling to the lightbulbs she announced,
"I really loved playing the keyboard.  Loved it so much I would sit there all day long.  I would put on a piece of music  I liked and try to find the first note.  I always found it easy to go up and down the keys depending on the melody line.  I loved playing the keyboard.  I'm sure I remember Dad telling me one day I would have lessons.  Though i'm pretty sure I chose dance lessons instead.  I expect I was better at dance than the keyboard."
"Ok, so were you any good at it?  Could you teach it or be a concert pianist?  Were the practical skills in place to make this your dream job?" Ted asked inquisitively.
"No way!!" Ruby laughed, "I didn't even really learn how to read music properly." She pondered for a minute as she tried to remember what she had learnt in school music classes.....
'Every good boy deserves football? F>A>C>E??'
She really wasn't sure but, something like that. 
"Hmm, the other thing I loved...." Ruby started with a twinkle of delight in her eye, "I loved writing.  I would write all the time,  practising my handwriting.  Tried out lots of different styles too.  I can still write in lots of different styles now.  Oh,  I remember now,  I used to make posters out of a kind of bubbly type of writing... like a 3d sort of effect.  Letters,  I used to write lots and lots of letters.  For years I kept a detailed journal too.  I loved writing that sort of stuff.  In fact I still do really."
Ted brought Ruby back from dreamland where she was sitting on a cloud of writing heaven. "Brilliant!  Ever written pieces for publication?"
"Oh God of course! There were many poems I won competitions for,  loads got into print.  I was always doing stuff like that." Ruby matter of factly stated.
Quietly and calmly,  trying not to demonstrate the excitement of finding the Holy Grail Ted asked,  "Hmm,  interesting Ruby.  Ever thought about writing for a living?"
"Like an author you mean?  Or do you mean like writing copy for websites and leaflets and stuff?"
"Yes Ruby like,  that thing that makes your heart sing,  that thing that made the twinkle just appear in your eye. The thing that could keep you up all night and you wouldn't realise how tired you are.  Whatever it is that you would enjoy doing even if there was no money involved."
"Well, that might well be novels then,  hmm,  yeah well I've written two of those already.  Did them one winter when I was bored and work was quiet.  Tho I have no idea where the manuscripts are now.  But yes,  I really did love doing that.  That's 'my thing' that's the thing I'm kind of famous for among my people.  Well, that and giving them advice of course." She chuckled from her belly.  Not realising the discovery that had just been made. 
Ruby was now on her way to becoming a published author.  She had no idea this was just about to be suggested to her.  Although when she looked back to this moment,  she would never forget that italian white leather furniture and the contrasting tram lines ironed up the shin of Ted's otherwise perfect suit. 
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Sunday, 30 June 2013

Sleep Baby Sleep!


ImageTell me,  do you feel that your head hits the pillow at night and your mind is FULL of racing thoughts?
What are you thinking about?
Is it the entrepreneurial brain within you? IF  you are chasing thoughts round and round.....
STOP!!!!
Who can you discuss your thoughts with?
Who Do you trust?
Would you love to sleep peacefully each night, knowing that everything will be okay?
Currently I'm working with a  salon owner who approached me in total overwhelm.
He had what felt like hundred of problems to figure out. While he was busy trying to stop his staff from constant bickering and complaining about phone calls from advertising agencies, he found he felt frazzled.
AT NIGHT.........would you like to sleep soundly?
Have you ever wondered if it's actually possible to wake in the morning feeling refreshed?
IT "So, Totally is......."
Here's my 5 steps towards achieving that goal:
1. STOP! Give yourself a break. Realise you cannot rule the world single handedly. You need help.
2. Think (and fantasise) about life the way you want it. What do you want?
3. Take a half day "off".  This is not a holiday,  you will be working with great productivity - go somewhere with a pad and pen alone.  Make 2 lists.  One of things that bother you, one of things you would like.  You may find common ground here which will begin to give you some answers.
4. Download a free "Guided meditation" to listen to before you goto sleep. Betcha, you're asleep before it finishes.  Choose your first meditation to be "relaxation".
5.  Ask for some help.  Decide what will work for you.  Do you want to be listened to? Do you want practical help?  Do you need help to even realise what you need?
YOU ARE NOT ALONE.......
louise@stranddesigns.co.uk
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Saturday, 29 June 2013

Lightbulb Moments!


AHA!


That's it!


I know!


Why didn't I think of that earlier?


IT's a SIGN!


Sounds familiar doesn't it?!
Occasionally, you will wake up in the middle of the night, sit BOLT upright and remember something you had been trying to think of all day long!
You walk into a room, forget what you went in there for and to quote Lee Evans (genius) you say out loud "What did I come in here for?"
"Why are you asking you? You DON"T KNOW!!" Say's Lee. Quite right.
then as you turn to walk away, you remember, just as you have stopped thinking about it.
Well, in the world of the Law of Attraction, this is easy to explain, yet would take me a while to explain in a blog.
Suffice to say, it's good to know that sometimes you just need to 'go with the flow'.
Did it come from nowhere?
Did it seem like an idea you had thought about before?
Does it seem like the RIGHT thing to do?
Does your gut say "Go for it"?
Maybe you wonder why you didn't think of it sooner.
The big question:
Does it feel easy?


If it does, it is most likely the right thing to do.


So, when that lightbulb goes off, gets you very excited and you feel very positive.....I ask.....Why not?
GO For it!!!
What's stopping you?
Some power, stronger than us, has lead you there. Do it! Enjoy it.
Loads of love
Louise x
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Wednesday, 27 February 2013

Gaining control of your business- gaining control of self esteem



You made it!!!!
Fantastic!! Your dreams came true and that inner confidence you gained has given you enough adrenalin to get your business off the ground. Those sleepless nights of crazy ideas and jotting things down
* Asking friends for help
* Finding creative ways of getting help with minimal cost
* Driving round half asleep
* Getting some press coverage
* Painting and decorating (you thought you were a hairdresser?)
And your business is open!!
Woo hoo - congratulations!
Now what?  You have hired the best staff in the business and you have found they know LOTS about thier craft or skill.  Exactly what you wanted! Brilliant.
Problem is, some of the staff may be more skilled than you, some may be older than you, some may sell more products than you.
This, little by little, wears away at your self esteem.  You feel like you lost control. Oh no, how did that happen? What happened to the drive, passion and ambition?  Let me tell you, it's still there and you still have it in you to be the LEADER you dreamed of being.  You can do this but how?
Decide exactly what it is that makes you feel you have a low self esteem.  Do your staff listen to you?  Do they respect you?  Are you behaving like a leader?
Maybe the problem just lies within you.  Maybe you are questioning yourself.  Are you good enough?
Of course you are good enough.  How you turn it around is a question you can answer within yourself but you need some help sometimes to realise this.  If you walk around like a victim about to be picked over by the vultures who are your staff then guess what? .... they are going to do exactly what you think they will.  The BEST way forward is to physically begin by walking tall,  by COMMANDING respect from the staff,  by being a LEADER.
Find the answer within yourself and decide what is keeping you low, then go ahead and turn it around.
If you feel you would like some further direction on this or need to talk things over with someone who can listen knowingly (I've seen it all from previous clients) then go ahead and ask me for some help. louise@stranddesigns.co.uk
Much love
Louise
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