Respecting yourself

Respecting this life of mine. 

It’s had its moments. 

Back in hospital next week but I gotta say, taking time to look after myself, eat right, move more, chill, bask (ignore the alcohol and lack of ability to sleep) coupled with digging VERY deep to find some self love and I reckon my soul and spirit will love Me for it. 

Gotta love and respect yourself right?

You asked for more law of attraction stories

Ok folks, you spoke.  I have been tuning in far more on the little stories of law of attraction that I am going to show you right here in this post.

Many have asked me to speak more of the LOA here and on my Youtube channel so that's what I will do.

Right now there is some pretty MASSIVE stuff going on in my life. All more than good.
Suffice to say I haven't felt so good in literally years.  So much so that I couldn't sleep last night which is unheard of for me.  What about you? Do you lie awake in utter excitement for life and what it is bringing to you right about now? That was me last night,  Anyhow... most of this good stuff isn't the type of news I can share yet.  Secretly though, I hate when you tubers and bloggers do the whole secret squirrel thing so please ignore that I said that :)

Basil Brush was the feature of my latest manifestation.  You see my second oldest friend has been unwell.  Feeling a need to check on her far more than I should I sent a text.  She replied,
"I'm ok, I'm snuggled up with Basil Brush." Obviously I was perplexed and simply had to ask the story behind Basil Brush.  Now, she is daft as a brush and there is totally no reason for me to share with you the story. Just store away the Basil Brush image.

Following this, a night later (last night) Jas and Lewis were just about to go out.
"Bye bye Basil Brush." Lewis called out 100% randomly.
My shocked face, with the widest eyes and open mouth (Why am I still shocked after the copious amounts of times this happens?) Jas looked and said, 'what was that mum?' knowing it would be a manifestation.  Telling the story of my friend and the text, I showed her the photo.  Now, what on earth has this got to do with anything?  Totally nothing.  Yet the relevance comes as we begin to align with the big stuff.  Should a wee element of doubt creep into the mind, the reminders come in with these little stories to remind us of the alignment.

Have faith.  Trust it.  It's all coming for you.

And me I sense too...

Much love, as always

Louise xoxo

Lost your muse?

For the first time ever I lost my muse.  Prose?  Words?  Writers block?

Never did I understand this previously.

I mean, I have all these books over on amazon. 

When I heard of writers 'finding' writers block I would frown with a big cartoon question mark above my head.  How can this be?  I would wonder.

Yet, now I have found myself with the same question mark for a different reason.

Been struggling.  
Is this you too?  Can you relate?

Over the summer break from university I have been cramming in way too much work in the way of 

* Home improvements
* Educational courses
* Working on my online business
* Giving the children a great summer 
* Getting my health on track

It's just too much.  Who could focus on more than one of these at a time?

Yet I'm super thrilled to see my blog going from strength the strength.  I love it!!! It's where I desire to be in the future.  So I must get past this block.  I've a few ideas.  Here comes the reason I'm struggling.

One of the educational courses I am taking is a blogger course.  Now, IT is Brilliant (yes that capital B is supposed to be there!).  Yet it's pretty tough too.  Showing me how to turn this passion into my business.  
(If you don't know, I have some health issues which means blogging suits my future perfectly and allows me to continue to work.)
Most of what I write is rather rambly about life stuff and how to change life for the better.

I'm passionate about this.  My 'about' page on this blog is soon set to change.  I want to tell you guys my reason WHY I started my business A Lusher Life and why I am super charged to help those I can reach.  This must mean that on occasions I will be writing posts that may not have an affiliate link in them or are simply purely for the sake of brain dumping.  That's just how I roll.  It's what feels right to me.  Build it and they will come.

Meanwhile, this blog will have slight changes made to it over time and you can see changes for the better.  To make 'stuff' tidy and neat.  Yet it will still be all me.  Just heading in a direction to create a sustainable business for me and my family.  In my next post I will share with you why I feel being a mum to teenagers is likely harder than raising babies.

Until then, if you are a blogger keen to begin using your passion as more than a hobby blogger, I would recommend looking at the course I am on.  The lady who is the owner of the business knows so so much.  From starting on pintrest, to monitizing your blog. See her website here . 

Back to A Lusher Life.  There really are so many amazing opportunities for simply everyone these days.  I have seen people create blogs who disregard the SPAG they teach in school (spelling, punctuation and grammar) who have a great following.  What's stopping you from giving this a go?  Let me know if it is something you would like to hear more about and I will let you know how you can make your dream a reality.  This blog is all still about that.  Especially if you have limiting beliefs.  More on that another time.  

Meanwhile, a picture of my coffee.  

Ok....

You got me....

This is not my coffee I sit with today as today is just about me grabbing an hour to myself to connect with my beloved blog and find my voice once again.  I adore writing.  I just feel I have listened too much to those inner voices who say "Write about something of value, something you know about, like science..." and yes, there is a place for science EVERYWHERE, including this blog (the science of the law of attraction) as well as my other blogs.  Yet I want to simply tell you, right here, right now, that you are more than amazing.  Have some belief that you can do all the things you want to do!

Much love

Louise xoxo

PS did you know I'm vlogging every day in august for #VEDA?  See the videos here. 

Are you 'down' because you don't have what you want?

Me too!

Yes, I know better but today I'm feeling blue.  You see, it takes just one little twinge in my back (in case you don't usually follow my blog I have this back issue) to set me off on the worry train.

What if I can't earn enough money?

What if this gets so bad I can't work?

What if this/that/something else?

I drive myself batty. 

So what is it with you?

Do you want  more money?  A better job?  A new lover?  To finally meet your soul mate?  The list is endless isn't it.  

This thing called life throws us obstacles.  Perhaps we are never meant to be 100% content, else is there a reason to keep driving forwards?

Sitting here and writing a list of what I could do if I had to stay home with a bad back, I realise there really is a dream there just waiting for my attention to create it.  Allowing it into my life like magic.
Yet, you know by now I don't believe the law of attraction is simply magic.  Give your thought to it yet.  Then set about creating it into reality.

I'm going to begin today.  I will pledge to you my one promise to myself, which is to share my latest video blogs which are over on my youtube channel.  Every company advertises, why should I be any different?  This way, my creations will get to more people and then there are more people to love what I do.  So I know this is going to take some work but this is an actionable step.

What actionable step can you take?

Sending you love

Louise xoxo

Crazy Social media frenzy!

What in the world is going on?

More manifestations - well, I did ask for it!

As you know, as I have told you so many times, you get what you think about.  I have spent the past couple of years building my business online and I love it!

How do you know you are doing the right job?  Well, coaches often say if you are feeling like you just want to get up and keep doing what you are doing over and over again then you are in the right job.  So here I am, on my day off, writing, editing and more writing.  I love it.

Is that how you feel about your own life?  If not, you are able to make changes.  Let me tell you, this visualisation stuff really works.

For me, I have manifested so many results recently and have a very clear understanding of where I am going forwards.  Such a lovely feeling.  Here's where you come in.  Not only can you help me, but you can be a little nosey in the process! We all love to peek into each others lives.  Recently I have been sharing more and more on Youtube - insights into my day.  People seem to love this stuff.  That, coupled with my blog....

I am up for an award!!!!!



I'm thrilled to see this and I would really love it if you can come on over and vote for me! Twitter will let me know if you do and I can then send a retweet out to all my followers for a little more press for you too!  A favour for a Favour!

Vote here:  http://shortyawards.com/LouiseUsher

I will be so thrilled to see a finals place for my blog.  If you are someone who blogs, you will know these things take lots of dedication.  I love my blog! To get that prestigious recognition would be fantastic!  The finals are in New York.  It's been a dream to go there!

So what else has been happening?  You can follow all my news in the links above.  However, the low down,  Jasmine and I went to meet with Zoella recently and now we went to meet Tanya Burr.  If you aren't sure who these ladies are, they are massive in the world of Youtube.  Such an inspiration.  They had a dream to build a business online and made them happen.  Great head for business too! See the video blog I made here.  The internet world is going crazy for this video!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFXBtrB6xyE

If you never saw my blog before and would like to (all about lifestyle) then go have a look here and remember to vote on the link above if you like what you see.

http://www.louiseusher.co.uk

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In the meantime, I thank you all for your amazing support and would love to hear from you so don't be shy and get in touch

Thanks,

~Louise~

Top 5 tips to figure out the life you want!

So what's stopping you?

Tell me,  what is stopping you from having the life you want?

Do you know what you want from your life?

Sometimes, thinking this one through can be a tricky one.  Over the years of learning the Law of Attraction along with other universal laws,  I have been guided into knowing exactly what I want from my life.  Although this has not been easy and I will share the tips I have learnt here with you now.

1.  What makes your heart sing?

When you do something,  you generally get a feeling about it.  A good feeling or a bad feeling.  Think of something that you would really not do even if you life depended on it.  My one is jumping out of a plane!

So then ,  reverse that feeling.  What do you love to do?  The thing that you would continue to do even if there were no other gain except you loving it.  Mine is writing....

2. What is the thing you did constantly as a child?

For me,  there are many things I love and they often are the same things I loved to do as a child.  However, with maturity and time I have realised that playing piano for the rest of my life is not likely to earn me a living (as I can't play!).  Now,  as a child I had the love, yet no lessons.  I taught myself and despite practising for hours,  I really wasn't so great at it.  Maybe you would go ahead and learn this skill and be great at it but for me,  I found there were other things I loved just as much but was GREAT at! 

So what's yours?

I love dance.  Yet,  I love it as a hobby.  It's not something I would like to turn into my trade, my industry.  As it then comes with rules.  Even the fact that I made 'a rule' a barrier,  suggests my vibration isn't as aligned with dance as it should be to make it my job.

So we are back to writing again.  I will do whatever it takes to make it.  Writing all the time,  engaging people, adding folks to my list,  even writing free books so people get the know, like and trust factor with my writing and may even go ahead and purchase a book or coaching session with me.

3. What type of personality are you?

There are so many factors to consider when thinking about your ideal job.  Who would you need to interact with?  If it's a room full of other people who potentially may slate you (which fills you with fear) then consider that.  If you can take walks in the forest with your dog every day, or swim every day or whatever fills you up....chances are this needs to be part of your daily life.

4. Try actually doing it.

Ok so figure out a couple of options. then go ahead and throw yourself out there.  Sitting thinking about it can drive you crazy.  You argue with yourself.  What if this?  What if that?

Doing the actual task,  for real,  will get that good old gut feeling stirring and you will instinctively know if it's right for you or not.  

A while back,  I had something in mind which felt so right.  Once I tried it,  I felt that while I had loved it,  there was a physical element to the job which would have stopped me from doing it to my best.  When I woke the next day and was in pain,  I was right to accept that this was not the full time job I thought it might have been.

5.  How does it affect the rest of your life?

If you stand in a room full of networking people and do your 60 second pitch, what do you say?

Which words stick in your throat? Which words make you stand more like a proud peacock?

Are you proud of what you do?  Do you find you would like to shout from the rooftops?  If this is the case,  you might well have found your niche.

Go for it.  

What is stopping you?

Much love

Louise xoxox

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