Monday 22 February 2021

How to stop feeling so anxious

Have you ever really tried to change things in your life and can’t? All you end up doing is getting yourself frustrated with  it. But you might not realise, is that it’s all in your programming. And there is a way that you can change this programming for the better. Making your life more rich and positive in lots of ways. 

This is not your fault. 

You might not know this up until now, but your subconscious brain is in charge of the show. 95% of the brain is run by subconscious thoughts. So when you try to change things, you are trying to change them with only 5%, which is the conscious brain. Did you know this? If not, then chances are you don’t know how to change things either. In this video, we will go through the process of teaching you how to change things so that you are able to reprogram your old beliefs and mindsets. Making life better for yourself is so much easier than you actually would’ve thought. I wish you lots of luck with this, do let me know how you get on! And if you want me to share my story with you and the things that I’m working on, just leave me a message and I will get back to you.


Thursday 18 February 2021

A day in the life of a writer - illuminating people to your dreams.

A day in the life of a writer - illuminating people to your dreams.

See how things went a little wrong with this video.... just shows you never to take anything for granted,

On this day, I planned to just share a day in the life vlog, you know, usual morning routine and all that normal stuff. Yet, strange as it is (or maybe not, in my life) I woke up today and decided I need to be way more clear. You guys need to know who I am and what I can offer you.... this was my thinking during my journaling time and I decided that if there was only one thing I could label myself as it wouldn't be:

Travel Vlogger Renovation expert Property developer Influencer but it would simply be Life Writer. Sometimes I like to share works of fiction. But more often than not, I speak about life experiences and the inspiration that comes from living as a human being. Just as this got crystal clear this morning, I edit this video which is exactly what it says - a day in the life of a writer - I'm a writer it seems haha. I do make myself laugh! 

See the video here: and let me know what you think!

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Wednesday 10 February 2021

The Ring - a law of attraction story

 The most incredible thing happened the other day which saw me floating with joy.


You know that place your mind goes to just before you sleep and just after you wake, theta state?

“Theta is the intriguing border between the conscious and the subconscious worlds. ... While in a theta state, the mind is capable of deep and profound learning, healing and growth.” Huffington Post.


I was falling asleep and felt an epiphany moment. Twenty minutes before, despite being very comfortable in my cosy bedding, I was unusually awake. My phone was already on aeroplane mode, so I chose to listen to a guided meditation which was already downloaded on my phone. There were parts of it which I found super frightening. The man’s voice was echoing certain words and I could visualise a gargoyle reaching its ugly head out to me. Which posed the question, why isn’t this meditation more relaxing than I was experiencing? Of course, me being me, being an inquisitive mind, lead me to a place of wanting to create more guided meditations, as I have successfully done in the past. Yet, being a creative writer, I also could make some of those very simple bedtime stories.  The feeling that coupled with this was sheer joy -this was the right thing.


Mike Dooley, from The Secret, had just hosted an amazing course which got us participants thinking about our next big manifestation. What did we want? Simple as that. I knew my one big want. It was to achieve even more success with my Youtube channel. And somehow, I felt that creating a new channel with the bedtime stories on them would be the way. It was a knowing. Of course, it will take more work. But this will provide a great service for those who need a little extra guidance to get to sleep or to meditate these days. A few days later, the name of Absolutely Mesmerizing came to me as if by magic. 


That was all before I slept. 


I had vivid dreams. Big ones which didn’t always make sense. I had broken a lucky 8 ball and there were intricate details around that. A little girl, about five years old, with a very soft and tiny hand was holding my left hand as I tried to push another, older girl, in a wheelchair. We walked through a door into a faceless wedding party where a bride and groom were taking their first dance. I could hear the song as clear as day, “All my life, I pray for someone like you…” and as I woke, I knew that bride was me.

The shock which ran through my body was incredible.

Would I have said I was closed to that idea? No. But I hadn’t realised I wasn’t open to the idea at all, once I’d ‘felt’ the dream. 


So, to my shock, I sense he is coming and suddenly my left hand felt empty. It was almost like a craving as if my finger was calling out to have something placed upon it. Total coincidence (there are no such things) my amazing friend was showing us on Instagram the rings she has recently started designing and having made. I had seen these before. One gemstone caught my eye but it was set in gold. I like gold. But for some reason, I had thought, ‘if I was to have that gemstone in a ring, I would like it in silver,’ and magic happened on this day. She was showing that particular ring in silver. Instantly I messaged her, asking for a price. Thinking it would be over my current budget but perhaps I could sort something later on. 

Sally and I had a wonderful conversation around this ring and she said, “Lou, this is made for you. It’s Marine Quartz which means it stimulates your creativity. And its chakra is the heart. You do know, it’s the only one I ordered in silver.”


Stimulates creativity = bedtime stories

Heart chakra = love


Sally was right. The ring was made for me. And this was a sample model, so it was affordable and I asked her to mark it as SOLD.  It’s all on its way and while I’m nervous, I’m so excited. 


Thursday 4 February 2021

No-one has it perfectly sorted - it's not just you!

You might think that people you admire and look up to have everything sorted out. Well, I can tell you, they don't. We are all human and none of us has that skill or ability. We all have our down moments and I wanted to give you this quick reminder that all of us have confusing times, moments of wonder and simply crazy thoughts.

That's ok. Really. How you react to them will determine if this is okay or not. We know this is a blessed life. We also know it has challenges. Recognising those is perfectly fine too! It doesn't mean we won't have a blip in the brain which fills our eyes with tears.

This video might help make things clearer:


Naturally phenomenologically thinking...?

Studying phenomenology is proving quite a natural thing for me. Aside from the big words I’m having to learn, somebody once told me that I seem to look for the meaning in absolutely everything. Is this something you do? Because I don’t necessarily think it’s always a bad thing, although maybe it can drive you crazy at times.

Therefore I decided that I need to do more of the things where I go somewhere peaceful and don’t think about things all of the time. 

Watching a bird fly past, 
feeling the sand underneath my feet, 
waves lapping, these are all things I just allowed to happen without thinking too much about the meaning behind it.
But sometimes being somebody that’s trying to morph into a lusher life does need an element of thinking about things sometimes. Let me know if you resonate, and do leave comments in the bottom.

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