I'm changing things with blogging - you can too!

Do you want to change things with blogging?

I've already wished you all a happy new year.  But how is your 2016 going so far?  Do you have a feeling this year will be all you wished for?

If not, why not?



Likelihood is,  you aren't taking the action steps needed to get into the flow and create the belief that you need and want to make your 'dreams come true.'

You know me.  For years now I have been learning little nuggets of information:
* Being blown away with the information

* Deciding to store that knowledge away in my headspace

* Share it here with you guys

* Little by little allowing it to change my beliefs.

The Law of Attraction is a funny ol' thing.  It's almost like a staircase.  You go up the first step and then onto the next.  The book "The Secret" may have you believing you just 'jump' straight to the top.  Yet I know through experience that it definitely is a journey.  And this is the great part!

Initial euphoria of thinking 'wow I can do anything' has settled down (taking a few years though) and now I am left with the true inner peace and knowing that all I have learnt these past few years have brought me to this place of finally believing.

Suddenly I can see people all around me doing what I would love to be doing as my living.  People who are making a difference and making a living doing it.  You've heard this so many times through loads of 'woo woo' stuff and even subscribed to the newsletters.  Yes, me too.  This is definitely not a criticism.

Yet the 'click' or the Aha moment as Oprah calls it has happened for me very recently.

How? What happened?

I found a group of like minded people quite by accident and I listened to what they were speaking about.  They had a mentor who was talking basic lingo.  Giving them practical steps to take.  Leading them to a place that with hard work and dedication they could too make their living making a difference.
No mention of meditation or visualisation (I DO still believe in all that, totally).  This was refreshing.

I naturally visualise and meditate every day now.  Perhaps we have to learn that first before we can take action on those steps.  Now, don't get me wrong, I thought I was taking action.  But it wasn't with that determined 'knowing' that Tony Robbins speaks of.

So what changed?  I joined a FREE Facebook group full of like minded people who were showing me what they were doing.  None of them bragged, or talked figures, yet I could tell by the interest they were getting in their blogs that they were where I want to be in three years time.
From there, I learnt lots.  Then I decided to invest in myself.
Already, I have learnt so much more about Keywords, driving traffic, using social media (and I thought I already knew a lot).  I'd realised that now is the time to make this investment in myself and my future business.

Skyrocketing at a speed I could never have achieved without this new knowledge, I'm thrilled and excited for the future.

Why do I want this?  Please subscribe to my blog to find out my story next time and why I HAVE to make it work.  Without question.

Wishing you much love as you head into your dream year of 2016.

Louise xoxo

Top 5 tips to figure out the life you want!

So what's stopping you?

Tell me,  what is stopping you from having the life you want?

Do you know what you want from your life?

Sometimes, thinking this one through can be a tricky one.  Over the years of learning the Law of Attraction along with other universal laws,  I have been guided into knowing exactly what I want from my life.  Although this has not been easy and I will share the tips I have learnt here with you now.

1.  What makes your heart sing?

When you do something,  you generally get a feeling about it.  A good feeling or a bad feeling.  Think of something that you would really not do even if you life depended on it.  My one is jumping out of a plane!

So then ,  reverse that feeling.  What do you love to do?  The thing that you would continue to do even if there were no other gain except you loving it.  Mine is writing....

2. What is the thing you did constantly as a child?

For me,  there are many things I love and they often are the same things I loved to do as a child.  However, with maturity and time I have realised that playing piano for the rest of my life is not likely to earn me a living (as I can't play!).  Now,  as a child I had the love, yet no lessons.  I taught myself and despite practising for hours,  I really wasn't so great at it.  Maybe you would go ahead and learn this skill and be great at it but for me,  I found there were other things I loved just as much but was GREAT at! 

So what's yours?

I love dance.  Yet,  I love it as a hobby.  It's not something I would like to turn into my trade, my industry.  As it then comes with rules.  Even the fact that I made 'a rule' a barrier,  suggests my vibration isn't as aligned with dance as it should be to make it my job.

So we are back to writing again.  I will do whatever it takes to make it.  Writing all the time,  engaging people, adding folks to my list,  even writing free books so people get the know, like and trust factor with my writing and may even go ahead and purchase a book or coaching session with me.

3. What type of personality are you?

There are so many factors to consider when thinking about your ideal job.  Who would you need to interact with?  If it's a room full of other people who potentially may slate you (which fills you with fear) then consider that.  If you can take walks in the forest with your dog every day, or swim every day or whatever fills you up....chances are this needs to be part of your daily life.

4. Try actually doing it.

Ok so figure out a couple of options. then go ahead and throw yourself out there.  Sitting thinking about it can drive you crazy.  You argue with yourself.  What if this?  What if that?

Doing the actual task,  for real,  will get that good old gut feeling stirring and you will instinctively know if it's right for you or not.  

A while back,  I had something in mind which felt so right.  Once I tried it,  I felt that while I had loved it,  there was a physical element to the job which would have stopped me from doing it to my best.  When I woke the next day and was in pain,  I was right to accept that this was not the full time job I thought it might have been.

5.  How does it affect the rest of your life?

If you stand in a room full of networking people and do your 60 second pitch, what do you say?

Which words stick in your throat? Which words make you stand more like a proud peacock?

Are you proud of what you do?  Do you find you would like to shout from the rooftops?  If this is the case,  you might well have found your niche.

Go for it.  

What is stopping you?

Much love

Louise xoxox

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