You'd think I'd be pretty 'sorted'!

Gee Whizz!!!

I'm a coach for goodness sake - you'd think I'd have everything totally sorted.

Life should be a breeze.

Little boxes everywhere for the assortment of 'stuff'

Lists and more lists showing me the path to what I need to do each day.


Sadly,  not,  I'm just human like everyone else.  Though it's quite nice that way.  I might have the answers how to help others but at times,  human ego and life takes over.  Which leaves room for surprises and ups and downs.


Abraham hicks talks about living life 'downstream'. Imagine that.  If you are constantly trying to swim up stream against the tide,  frankly it's blinking hard work isn't it!!

Turn around and 'go with the flow' and voila....easy peasy lemon squeezy.

Abraham Hicks also talks about how life can be 'blah' at times.  The reason isn't necessarily because you are missing the gratitude link,  but rather more because you slightly expect life to be super amazing.  

There is a story of a man who was held captive in a prisoner of war camp.  Yet,  every day when he was handed his cup of 'soup' with a dead fish head in it for flavour,  he remembered to say thank you as this is what was keeping him alive.

Keep it general,  they say.  When you have nothing to be thankful for,  be thankful for general stuff like

*You heart beating
*Breathing
*Air
*You pillow

When you reach the top of the mountain it can be one heck of a view but as humans,  it's the getting to the top which drives us.

This gentleman was happy with his lot but felt 'blah'.  Abraham hicks asked him to imagine having no bed that night,  no wife to go home to,  no transport etc etc etc..   You get the jist.

After working on this,  the man could see his amazing life through renewed eyes and life was amazing once again!

Watch the youtube video here

Can't Believe my Primark Haul video views on Youtube!

Goodness me folks!!

I'm shocked and thankful that my little un-pre-thought out Primark Haul video is approaching 500 views already!

This has been my fastest growing video to date and it looks like I'm settling more and more into my digital world.

Lucky for me I've loads of other work on right now including styling and photo shoots to get my teeth stuck into and yes, we are still waiting to hear about Mo's Visa.........arghhhh.....loads of caring people text me everyday asking.  Bless them 


So,  I'll pop the link here of the Primark video - well chuffed about that.  My shy daughter in the back ground was making it so much fun.

My "Office" set up today

I love days like today!

Have a look at where I am and how my day is going while writing my latest book on IVF.

I'm sat here at my gym lounge/coffee shop (You all know I love a costa coffee) and my gorgeous friend Lisa has just popped upstairs to run a couple of K's on the treadmill.

Little sweetheart baby boy of hers sleeps next to me in his pram while I sit clickety click on my keyboard.

Writing.

My love.

Babies,  my other love.

Costa,  yet another love.

What an amazing day I'm having.

I need your help - Bloglovin not working.

Hey folks.

Can anyone help? I've a big issue with my posts not coming up on Bloglovin.  This makes me very sad!

I've tried changing the Rss feed to blank, and from feedburner but still not working.

Ok, so please please the techie folks between us can you give me any advice?  I'm enjoying my new blog community and want to keep on growing.

Thank you x

Keeping hair healthy, professional hair products?

Are professional hair products really worth the investment?

To be honest,  YES!

Having a long career in the hairdressing industry I do feel qualified to let you know that the best thing you can do for your hair is invest wisely in the best products you can.

You will find a video below to give you more information but to be honest,  you most likely know what suits your hair all by yourself!  Honestly,  just pay it some attention when you shampoo,  condition and use styling products.  How does it feel?

“Louise please tell me,  does changing your shampoo help?”

I think so!  Not because your hair simply ‘gets used to it’ as people say – although you could call it that if you like.  Rather it’s a case of some shampoo and conditioner contains different ingredients to the next one.  At times this can cause a ‘build up’ which coats the hair shaft.  This is not good.  Imagine trying to put self tan lotion over the top of your moisturizer…..

It won’t work!

Why?  Obvious really – it needs to soak into the skin.  Exactly what conditioner needs to do on your hair.  If there is a build up then ‘no way’ will the conditioner get into the hair shaft to create moisturising  activities!

I’ll make another video for you to show how to create salon beautiful hair at home simply by changing your shampoo techniques – watch this space. 

So professional products not only come with the advice from your salon expert but also the ingredients will be richer, needing less of it which is better in the long run for your pocket,  the environment and of course for your hair.

Lots of us are LOVING long hair right now – along with long dresses which pleases me…….these locks will not get longer if you don’t look after them.  The ends will break off resulting in you saying: “My hair never grows!”

Feel free to send me your questions: If you would like to keep it private you can email me at louise-usher@virginmedia.com

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